Our Scripture reading today is Proverbs 12:18, "There is that speaketh like the piercings of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is health."
There is quite a difference seen in this verse as to how someone uses their tongue. The results are very different too. Our words should be used to bring healing and not hurt. We will need the help of God's Spirit to accomplish this task. The flesh wants to cut someone up, but the Spirit will lead us to put someone back together. The flesh wants to yell and scream, but the Spirit will lead us to a soft answer. We must surrender our mouth and heart to God.
Psalm 19:14, "Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight , O LORD, my strength, any my redeemer."